Dinner with strangers worth meeting.
Small tables, matched by what you're into.
- Guests screened
- Public restaurants
- Full refund if not matched
What guests said
Messages guests sent us after their dinners.




Abuja is full of people you'd get along with. You just haven't met them yet.
Work, home, the same familiar faces. Meet & Muse is an easy way to step outside your usual circle without the awkwardness of doing it alone. No apps. No swiping. No forced icebreakers. Just good food and real conversation with people picked with you in mind.
How it works
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Book your seat.
Fill in your details, pick a Saturday or Sunday and answer a few fun questions about you. Then pay ₦5,000 by bank transfer or card to lock in your seat.
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We match your table.
We use your answers to group you with people you'll actually have things to talk about with.
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Show up and enjoy.
Venue details land 24 hours before, so you can check the menu. Order what you like, meet your table, and see where the conversation goes.
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Simple, transparent pricing
Single seat
₦5,000 per seatWhat's included
- Your seat at a curated table
- Interest-based matching
- Restaurant reservation handled for you
- Venue details 24 hours before
What's not included
Your food and drinks. You order from the restaurant's regular menu and pay them directly. Most guests spend between ₦15,000 and ₦40,000.
Book your seat
Start with your details and a few fun questions so we can match your table. Then pay the ₦5,000 commitment fee, by bank transfer or card. Your seat is only booked once you've paid.
- Step 1: Fill in your details
- Step 2: Pay ₦5,000 to lock your seat
About 5 minutes. You'll pay by bank transfer or card right after.
If we can't match you to a table that works, you get a full refund. Refund policy
Card payments are handled securely by Selar. Privacy policy
Designed so you feel comfortable from the first hello
- Always at public, reputable restaurants
- Every guest books ahead and answers matching questions. Nobody just walks in.
- This isn't a dating event or a networking pitch. It's dinner and good conversation.
- No pressure to swap numbers. Stay connected only if you want to.
You'll love this if...
- You're new to Abuja, or your circle feels a little small lately
- You want conversations that go beyond work
- You enjoy trying new restaurants
- You're curious about people and their stories
FAQ
Do I come alone?
Yes, and most guests do. That's the point. Everyone at the table is meeting for the first time.
What if I'm shy?
You're in good company. Tables are small and matched by shared interests, so conversation comes easier than you'd think.
Where is the dinner?
A public restaurant in Abuja. We send the venue 24 hours before so you can look through the menu.
How long does it last?
About two hours, starting at 6 PM. You're free to leave whenever you like.
Is my seat booked once I fill in the form?
Not yet. Your seat is booked once your ₦5,000 commitment fee arrives, by bank transfer or card, right after the form. The fee tells us you'll really show up, so we only build tables around people who are coming. If we can't match you to a table that works, you get a full refund.
Does ₦5,000 include food?
No. It covers your seat and matching. You order and pay for your own meal at the restaurant. See what the fee covers
Can I book with a friend?
Yes, the more the merrier! Each friend just fills in their own details and pays for their own seat, the same way you did.
What if I can't make it after booking?
Cancel more than 72 hours before for a full refund or a free move to another dinner. Between 72 and 24 hours, you get credit for a future dinner. Read the full cancellations and refunds policy
